Only happened once because it got weird afterward. One thing led to another and we ended up making out. One night we were drinking scotch at his place and he confessed he had been crushing on me for a long time. “I had a buddy in college who was gay but in the closet. It was also my last but I don’t regret it.” It was the first time I had ever experienced something with another guy. We thought he was joking but found out later he wasn’t. He offered to go down on me and the other guy as a bet. “It was a few days just before Thanksgiving and everyone had left campus to go home for the holiday, except for me and two other guys staying in the dorms.įeeling bored, the three of us decided to hang out in my room and play poker. What’s weird is that we ended up doing it two more times. Yeah, we had been drinking but we weren’t sloshed. Just before graduation, we ended up hooking up off-base. Not sure if it was his build or what but I just I just know that I liked him. There was a guy who was about my age (22) who I was strangely attracted to. But that changed during my time in boot camp after joining the Marines. “I’ve always been attracted to women never had an experience with another guy – although I had thought about it. It only happened once, and we never talked about it again.” The next thing I knew, we were going down on each other.
I don’t remember all of the details, but we ended up watching a movie and firing up some 420. At the end of the night, Mike invited me back to his place to chill. One Friday after work, a group of us stopped by a local watering hole to tie a few on. On the job, I got to know one of the guys who was a little older than me.
“I was 21-years old and spent most of the summer working construction to make extra money for college. Remember, orientation is not always black or white. Our hope is to help men who are trying to come to terms with their sexuality. To gather their narratives, we asked the Guy Counseling community to come forward and share.įirst names are used to protect their identities.
What follows are 25 first gay experiences stories as told by men who identify as straight. STRAIGHT MEN SHARE TRUE FIRST GAY EXPERIENCES Given interest in this topic, we thought it might be helpful to share some of these with readers.īelow is a podcast (E17) that features an email from a listener who identifies as straight but recently found himself attracted to another man at his gym. While many websites tend to eroticize such encounters, few offer first hand, true stories of these gay experiences. According to scientific research, something like 7-8% of men who identify as heterosexual has had some type of same sex-experience. Looking for first gay experiences stories? If so, you wouldn’t be alone. FIRST GAY EXPERIENCES HAPPEN MORE THAN YOU THINK.STRAIGHT MEN SHARE TRUE FIRST GAY EXPERIENCES.I’m a grown adult with nothing to gain from lying on the internet. Egg on my face I suppose but hopefully this clears things up and gets rid of the “fake” allegations. So chances are a lot of the post didn’t make sense because of that. I wrote this post at 3 am on the verge of sleep after taking a melatonin.
Please help.ĮDIT: Full disclosure, I rewrote some parts to make them clearer. My brother has been texting and calling, profusely apologizing but I genuinely don’t know what to do. I remember going back to the hotel room but nothing else. I thought he was with the woman his mother wanted him to marry. I jokingly ask if he has a hookup or something and then in the background I hear an all too familiar voice call, “babe? Who is it?” My blood went cold.
He’s extremely shifty eyed and acting shady. I haven’t gotten the chance to see and I thought it might be nice to stop by. You know?Īnyways, I was traveling for business and went to visit my brother at his new apartment. Of course, I never thought anything of it, since again, he’s a child and those things happened and I figured it’s one of those things. My brother knew my ex-husband growing up and I think he may have had a tiny crush on him as a child. Our age gap made me a third parent essentially. He was born when I was a senior in high school. I’m now with someone else but that’s neither here nor there. The relationship was very traumatic but I’m in therapy to heal from it. To keep a long story short, he cheated on me and was cruel to me after I had a miscarriage. My ex husband and I had a turbulent relationship. I suppose this account has now become a diary of my misery. The text of the post has been preserved below. This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits.